Table of Contents
Chapter 1	So You Want to Be a Leader?
		Introduction Genderless Yes, Virginia, There Are Gender Differences My Story
Chapter 2	The Bad News First Look carefully before you lead
		Tip #1 Tip #2 Tip #3 Tip #4	Understand the “Be/Don’t Be” Anomaly Get the Chip Off Your Shoulder Prepare To Be Hated Embrace that Everything Is Everyone’s Job
Chapter 3	“Live It” All about your philosophy of life
		Tip #5 Tip #6 Tip #7	Tell the Truth and Nothing But the Truth Be Competitive But Not Cruel Live the Golden Rule Unashamedly
Chapter 4	“Do It” All about your actions on the job
		Tip #8 Tip #9 Tip #10 Tip #11 Tip #12 Tip #13 Tip #14 Tip #15 Tip #16 Tip #17 Tip #18 Tip #19	Be a Girl Scout Create the Communication Dance Be There and Be Fair Understand that Fair Is Not Always Equal Slay the Dragons Know How to Hire and When to Fire Trust Your Intuition Have a Male Devil’s Advocate Motivate Your Team Learn that Business is Business and Friends Are Friends Stand Pretty Close to the Water Fountain But Don’t Drink Emote!
Chapter 5	“Sell It” All about your style
		Tip #20 Tip #21 Tip #22 Tip #23 Tip #24	Wear Buttons and Bows Squawk Like a Mother Hen Use a Soft Touch Run Like a Deer Smile
Chapter 6	Taking Care of Yourself All about preserving yourself
		Tip #25 Tip #26 Tip #27 Tip #28	Find a Good Wife Wear the Coat Without Those Designer Labels Meditate Get Physical
Chapter 7	The Final Layer All about perspective
		Tip #29 Tip #30 Tip #31	Beware the Corporate Sinkhole Exit Before the Curtain Falls Bonus Tip
Postscript	Where Do Good Leaders Go?